I dont think so that there is true love any more if u see around ur self there is lust every where. True love means to love the soul not the body but today love starts from the body and ends also on the body. A person cant love without seeing the other person is there anyone who loved without having a look of the other person. So i think there is no true love if someone hava had a true love then let me know
Bye take care and stop arguing about love

i loved someone without seeing that person. a crazy love it was..an internet love..that person never loved me back..it hurt me..for over 2 years it hurt me , made me cry..made me miserable..i fell into a deep depression
..wadya say?this is true love! no it was jus a delusion!

Hey People,
The probability of finding love on Internet is very very low. We do hear it happening but the percentage is very low. Most of the time this kind of net affair turns in delusion or fades away with time. I am married hence not looking for love here but I dont believe it works on net. As for friendship, yes, you can make lots of friends here.

woow i agree with ya
but i want to tell ya that ma sister got to know her husband via internet and she loved him
it worked u see!!

ya may be, coz its the fate which decides
people gettin 2gether, n it is the fate which decides
people continue bein 2gether

that was an experement for ya
we should learn aloot of stuff in this life
so this experement might had tought you something
if u thought about it u'll know
:)

I agree with you Kate. Life is an experiment and full of surpizes. As for your sis, she is one of those few lucky ones. :)

lool
1st tnx for agreeing with me
and 2nd i think u r right ;)

u r true to the core tauseef...but still true love exists which lies on the foundation of innocence and i would reall wanna have such and i know i will find that true love for me

hope u fine it as soon as possible..
;)

lool
u have a really bad idea about love!!!
well i think that most of waht u said is maybe true but that doesn't mean that real love doesn;t exict this is not rue
u know what i have learnt something from this life
when u think about something 24 hours and try to get it with anyway like a bf or a gf he/she wont be there untill u just completly forget about it
maybe thats why we always get tierd of searching for them
and we feel that the right person for us is not there and he wont be there
so thats why we sometimes think that lose doesn't exict.

Yes Tauseef you have a point but there is still true love... I know this first hand... I have found my true soul mate.. I did meet him on the net.. All it took was a request to be added as one of my friends on one of the sites I am on.. I saw his pic and knew something was there.. We talk almost every night 2 to 8 hours.. I have seen him on cam but not face to face... You are probablely wonder how I know it is true love? Well I feel his touch, hear his voice, and sense him with me at all times.. I know when something is wrong as he does with me.. There have been a couple of times that he has called me to see what was wrong.. I would ask him how he knew and he would say I can feel it.. NOW here is the kick.. We have never touched or kissed. We have only talked online or on the phone... I know when he is thinking of me for my heart races and I get butterflies in my stomach.. He is right now working on comeing to see me.. He is my life, I have never felt this way before and I have been married twice before.. This man has showed me that TRUE LOVE does exsist. Our love is was conceived in our hearts and in our souls, not of our bodies.. That is when you know it is true love.

oh wow,that was really emotional...
with ma best wishes to u 2..

hey my dear, there is a true luv. why i said this is thati had a relationship 4 good sold 8year and at d end of it it fall apart, well luv come 2 dose who belive it why? when i move out i realiz that thre is a true luv, im still single 29 4rm nigeria im still sarching, we guys or girls now aday dont no that there is something b4 luv when a guy see a lady he will just tell a luv u why not knowing that there is something that generate than luv,when ever u see a true luv someone d first thing 2 notes d atraction after then did u ask ur mind what did this porson want 4rm me did u see how did d person look like, can u stand d person, can u coop with d person,can this person give u what u want, this are the things u have 2 observe b4 u thinks of something. what is that something? is feeling. feelings come b4 luv, but this days its only luv we no and at d end of this it u will meet ur self in broken heart which is 2 bad.there is true luv if which 2 put ur self in 2 true luv. 10x. if u want more 4rm me i can still give u more explaination about true luv. u can also mail me on adeagbos@yahoo.com. thanks bye

well, i can't say that u r wrong coz i agree with every single word u wrote up there.

I agree with u Kate. There are lot of ppl who for the first time when see their partner they became so overconfident that, they got the best partner, they can do everything for him/her, they can do everything. After few months, this not that I want. When they are in a relationship they found another one this is the best I have ever found, again the same the same story, after few months split. It is not due to proper match, some ppl has the tendency that fall in love with everyone they meet. It could be a mental weakness to fall in love. WHAT IS YOUR OPENION IN THIS CASE.

I agree with u Kate. There are lot of ppl who for the first time when see their partner they became so overconfident that, they got the best partner, they can do everything for him/her, they can do everything. After few months, this not that I want. When they are in a relationship they found another one this is the best I have ever found, again the same the same story, after few months split. It is not due to proper match, some ppl has the tendency that fall in love with everyone they meet. It could be a mental weakness to fall in love. WHAT IS YOUR OPENION IN THIS CASE.

I am with somebody and i love him very deeply

i agree with you........
but i'm few pessimist.!!!!

Love is the secrect of our living and the pillar of our succeed.

Friendship is a perfume that you can pour on yourself by love you recieve from the people.

any answer send me email..:-

adsa_114@Hotmail.com
adsa_114@yahoo.com

thanks..

Love is Spontaneous overflow of powerfull feelings between two persons

yes thats right love is a communication between the feelings of 2 persons :)

thanks for appriciate with me

ooh no problem i only said what is true
:)

Love is a gift from your God.
Treasure and cherish it when it comes. And thank your God when it does come.It is a blessing.

ooh not at all the times belive me it sometimes hurts ,and some other times u find out that the person u love is not the right person for ya
and i belive that this is a bit trouble....

Love is blind, deaf and at times stupid.
When we fall in love with the wrong person, for whatever reason, it is because we did not use our head to help guide us.
The best and longest lasting relationships happen when the 2 are friends first. With many common interests and goals.
I am involved with civil rights for the disabled. and met my last girlfriend in a group there.
She was close to being right for me. A few quirks were there.
Some tips I recently picked up on to see how your "possible future one" reacts in a few situations.
In restaurants, when the food or drink order, how do they react?
remember they will take care of sometimes well over 100 people that shift.
If your date is calm and explains it calmly, with no "down talking" or rudeness, that is good.
If they are rude to the waiter/waitress, then they are somewhat self centered, and NEED to show control over everything.
Another thing is the tip.
If they tip the PROPER amount, that is very good. Ands so is someone that tips more for really good/great service. then they would really deserve it, wouldn't they?
If they tip less then, that shows an uncaring attitude.
I admit that if service is really bad, like hot things cold, etc, I would at least a tip of 2 pennies to show that I did remember the tip.
My last girlfriend, would; be in a demeaning attitude and voice, would put down that person. And at least she was wrong on 3 different occasions. (basically she wanted another salad or salad dressing.
That is a bit on the mean spirited side. Sooner or later It will come out of them in their relationship with you.
That is someone I do not want for me. Control by meanness.
Of course check out their lifestyle. if your a "neat freak" and the other is a slob, it will not work out.

hi everybody
i agree with u kate
that there's a true love
But i think that it least
nowadays almost some people
having love relationships
only for entertainment& enjoying their time
they r thinking in themselves & don't care about the others
finally i'd to show there's a true love but it become rarely to found.

woooow
i like ur words soo much
it seems that u had or still have love troubels i am not soo sure about that but it is just a feelin
anyway u were soooooooo right and i agree with you
really i liked what u said because it was true
:)

Thanx kate
ya i have love troubles. i loved agirl,she is my neighber once i told her about my feelings ,but she had alove relationship with a guy she loved him so much but he broke her heart now she is depressed afraid of love almost avoiding it,can u feel that?it's so hard,i tried to forget her but in vain i still love her she is the preffect one i have ever met.

ooh i understand what us aid and i know that it is really hard for you
her story is a bit like mine i have the same problems
but what made me change ma mind is a guy know he toled me that he loves me soo much and he been tryin to convence me that he will be the perfect guy for me and that he will do anything to please me so i thought about it and i couldn't refuse igave it a shot and here i am i am his girl friend and i love him,he loves me too
what i am tryin to tell you is if u tried to change her idea about love and try to show her that u can be te perfect guy for her just let her try if she did not like you or fall in love with you then it is all up to her..

Thaanx kate for ur advise i'll do my best to get her out of that mood . w rabina yofa2k with ur bf

i agree with ya'll too....the topic is real interesting....
yes kate u're right about it too...
i say -true love does exist and is quite heavenly for that fact....u start to feel perfect and complete...more natural and u suddenly realise the value of your life, not for yourself but for your other half..
very different tho, but all that is left is your partner...
physical is a secondary half (Wat tauseef calls lust)
i have never been in a relation but am waiting for a true one...
to sum it all up...if i was in love, i'd like to spend the last second of my life with her....
dj sam here

hey tnx aloot for agreeing with me and i want to tell ya that i like ur words real much..
with ma best wishes..

i accept with u people,
love n friendship go hand in hand,
to be good life partners its neccessary to be good friends first

u r right..

its great to see people beliving in true love. yes they may be right some have good experiance but some had bad. I dont have any objection. But i am talking just on the basis of statistics. I think true love is not the love that we had. True love is somne thing more precious, more beautiful. Its not like diamond but shines more. its also not bounded to only girl and a boy some times GOD also comes in between and then it changes its shape and when u have true love with ur GOD its becomes something like maddness. But if we take it in the context of humanbeings then also its the same. True love can be compared with something similar to madness its 1 step higher then love and in our local language we call it "Ishiq". I think true love is this. U may love someone and u also say and feel that u have a true love but it cant be said a true love . ohhh just leave it i think i cant convey what i wanted to say. Any ways best wishes to all who have faith on true love and may it remains the same and also in last to tell u dont think that i have been decived in love its just my inner feeling

well i don't know i guess i agree about there is no true love nowadays cause i guess there is no one deals wz his heart wzout putting there mind or using it there a gr8 different between thoughts and feelings in life people are two kinds people who their heart leads their minds and people their mind leads their hearts so does that make two different kinds of true love i don't know maybe?!!!! well from a experiences i been through and maybe cause i am one of the person who let their heart lead their mind i got dumped 7 times when i could have dump the 7 times i have got dumped but it at last depends on the person for example i don't like to hurt someone but getting hurt is ok if the other person might not get heart so let's get back to our subject which is love and friendship now adays i think it's just common stuff between to persons or a friendship between a guy a girl that spend a while then it gets an evolution so it becomes love i don't know why i feel that's not love but seems now adays that's the way it works out …about internet love I guess it could work out if there is one thing a hope and a dream that the both really willing to make it come true and gr8 trust …..Well I really wanna say more but I guess I have said a lot and sorry if I made u read a lot and hope I wasn’t too much off the point of the subject cyaaaa
And btw I am new to the group and hope that I would be always an active member :)

oooh after all what happened to ya i think that u have the right to hate love and to beive that there is no real love ..
actually if i were u i would just do the same thing...
but that doesn't mean that the rigt person for ya wont ever be there...
just have some hope and faith..
and trust ur heart..
welcome to the group..
and as long as u r here then consider urself an active member..
best wishes to u and a good bye....

I got interupted while writing.
True friendship is hard to find. True love is harder.
Treasure the friends that you have now. We do not know what tommorrow has waiting for us.
hopefully we will find true friendship and love.

I got interupted while writing.
True friendship is hard to find. True love is harder.
Treasure the friends that you have now. We do not know what tommorrow has waiting for us.
hopefully we will find true friendship and love.