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2009年11月2日 10:51 The Habits of Character and Leadership (7 個評論)

Sweetlady59

The Habits of Character and Leadership

The Habits of Character and Leadership

The ultimate aim of human life and activity is development of character, according to Aristotle. The most important goal you could hope to accomplish in the course of your life is to become an excellent person, in every respect. Your purpose should be to develop the kind of personality and character that earns you the respect, esteem, and affection of the important people in your world.

Develop Your Own Character
Aristotle, probably the greatest philosopher and thinker of all time, said a simple method can help, if you wish to learn a virtue later in life. Simply practice the virtue in every situation where that virtue is required. In other words, if you wish to develop the quality of courage, act courageously even when you feel afraid.

Aspire to Leadership
It is not easy to rise to a position of leadership in any organization or in any society. The competition for leadership is fierce. Only the people who are the very best equipped to acquire leadership positions and then to hold on to those positions rise to the top in any area.
Whatever It Takes
In a way, leadership is "situational." What is necessary for success in a leadership position is determined by many factors, including the people to be led; the objectives to be accomplished; the competition for resources; the social, cultural, political, and economic environment; and the situation that the leader finds at the moment. Changing any of these factors will change the qualities of leadership necessary for success.

The True Test of a Leader
Peter Drucker says the only event that is inevitable in the like of the leader is the "unexpected crisis." Only when you encounter a setback, an obstacle, a difficulty, or the inevitable crisis, do you demonstrate the kind of person you really are. It is not what you say, wish, hope, or intend that reveals your character. It is only your actions, especially your actions in the face of adversity and possible setbacks or losses.

You Are Responsible
Once you have developed a clear vision for your ideal future and resolve to develop unshakable courage by doing the things you fear, you must develop the habit of accepting complete responsibility for yourself and for every aspect of your life.

Tell the Truth
Perhaps the most important quality of leadership is the habit of integrity. You develop integrity and become a completely honest person by practicing telling the truth to yourself and others in every situation. Shakespeare wrote, "To thine own self be true," meaning that you are what you believe in. You must continually clarify what you stand for and what you will not stand for. Once you have decided that you are going to build your life around certain values, you refuse to compromise those values for anything.

Action Exercise
Imagine that you could write your own eulogy. How would you like to be remembered and described by others when you are gone?

2009年11月3日 9:44Re: The Habits of Character and Leadership

chillxxx
ViCkY 高級會員  107, Ur PerSoNaliTy SpEaKs b4 ur mOutH cAn pRoVe d PoWer of Ur BrAin, 沙烏地阿拉伯
Thanks for these pearls of wisdom.
I hope more members can read this and put it into use.
voted up :)

Imagine that you could write your own eulogy. How would you like to be remembered and described by others when you are gone?

Actually, I don't care about eulogy. We speak well about dead people anyway. What I'm most concern about is my status spiritually. I hope misfortunes and fortunes won't hinder me to be worthy of God's kingdom when I die, and I hope I can nurture strong Christian faith in my kids while I'm alive so that they can readily face life's blows with right conviction and confidence. I hope they could pass it on to generations.

2009年11月3日 3:14Re: The Habits of Character and Leadership

zahlee
sahlee 95, 菲律賓
quoted by John Quincy Adams, “ If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more…you are a leader.”

2009年11月3日 10:4Re: Re: The Habits of Character and Leadership

chillxxx
ViCkY 高級會員  107, Ur PerSoNaliTy SpEaKs b4 ur mOutH cAn pRoVe d PoWer of Ur BrAin, 沙烏地阿拉伯
wow...you do inspire me, sistah :)

nice input. thanks!

2009年11月3日 10:43Re: Re: Re: The Habits of Character and Leadership

zahlee
sahlee 95, 菲律賓
really?...i'm glad...you're welcome, sistah :))
that's actually a line from the editorial i wrote in our schoolpaper...not yet published...hmm,now you inspired me more...i've chosen then a good inspiring quote hehe

2009年11月3日 11:27Re: Re: Re: Re: The Habits of Character and Leadership

chillxxx
ViCkY 高級會員  107, Ur PerSoNaliTy SpEaKs b4 ur mOutH cAn pRoVe d PoWer of Ur BrAin, 沙烏地阿拉伯
agree :))))

2009年11月5日 22:21Re: The Habits of Character and Leadership

DeaDlyDashing
Altaf Husain已驗証的會員 41, 吉達, 沙烏地阿拉伯
Lorna , Its just wonderful and thanks for sharing.
Caring , Altaf

2009年11月6日 14:54Re: The Habits of Character and Leadership

Sweetlady59
Lorna 49, Makati City, 菲律賓
u r welcome my friend
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