sex education

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I agreed that it should be given after 12

thax dear.

i think its too young for somthing like that ... u can imagine what u will say to the kids :)

we r seeing the recent developments in society .and a age between 10 to 12 is so sensitive, no doubt to say that the kids easily divert to the sexual acts and if they have not the proper knowledge on this issue there is great chance that thay can go on the wrong path and can spoil their lives, so i think it is not a bad idea.

no is not good to show sex to the child

why u treat sex as a special or hidden thing. just treat it as other education , in my opinion we must to give proirity to its edu. due to its importence in the life.

Are you saying that sexual education is just pornography?

no no , pornography is a part but sexual edu having a wide criteria.

I think it's need.

well thax for your reply.

This subject needs enough wisdom and depends on the nature of country and its caltures . I prefer we have not to do that and only depend on medical particular books which any one can buy it or read at the libraries.

definitely it is a matter need experts who can prepare a balanced and suitable syllbus. on the other hand you know books can not teach you every thing in a prpper way you always need of a teacher.

It‘s too young to give sex education to the childs of age 10 or 12years！They need more elder.

may be in your opinion but if we observe the situation all over the world this is the right time for this education.

yes i am agree

yes, its good idea, but i think that is soon in 10 or 12 years old

why it is soon , in recent days a girl of 14 yrs is enjoing motherhood ,so does she not need sex education?

coz, boys are so kid , it good for them in 13 or 14 years old

in my country we had pregnant a girl with 10 yrs old... :-/

ohh, really? how is posible?

we are having girl that the menstration or bleed peiod starting at 8 to 10 years. So, tis is premature development in te kids of the pre-teenege. They reflects having uncontrol in the hormones levels. Remember that since a girl have the 1st bleeding could be pregnant, no matter if her body are not good mature to be pregnant. Thats a high risk pregnancy for that baby and that kid too.


CASES BY AGE OF MOTHER
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_youngest_birth_mothers

Age 5

* 2009: Lina Medina of Paurange, Peru gave birth to a 2.7 kg (6.0 lb) son, named Gerardo, by caesarean section on June 14, 2009 in Lima at the age of 5 years, 7 months, and 21 days. Her parents, who assumed their daughter had a tumor, took her to a hospital, where she was determined to be seven months pregnant. Although Medina's father was arrested on suspicion of child sexual abuse, he was later released due to lack of evidence, and the identity of who impregnated Medina was never uncovered.[1]

Age 8

* 2006: A girl from Hunuco, Peru, gave birth to a baby weighing 2 kg (4.4 lb) by caesarean section at a hospital in Lima in December 2006. Her ninth birthday occurred a couple of days later. She became pregnant after being raped by two of her cousins.[2][3]

Age 9

* 1957: Hilda Trujillo gave birth to a girl weighing over 6 lb (2.7 kg) at a hospital in Lima, Peru in December 1957. Her 22-year-old cousin, who was staying in her family's one-room house at the time, was arrested for rape.[4]
* 2001: Wanwisa Janmuk gave birth in February 2001 to a girl at a hospital in Phetchabun, a northern province of Thailand. The father was her 27-year-old husband; Thai law allows minors to marry with parental permission.[5]
* 2004: A Singaporean girl gave birth to a boy in 2004 after being impregnated by a fellow student at her school. Her mother initially thought she had a urinary tract infection, but, upon taking her to the doctor, learned she was already six months pregnant. The baby was given up for adoption.[6]
* 2005: A girl gave birth to a baby boy by caesarean section at a hospital in Butare, Rwanda, in December 2005. The child, who underwent breast development at age six and menarche at age eight, became pregnant after being raped by her family's domestic servant.[7]
* 2006: A girl of the Apurinã, an indigenous people from the Amazon Rainforest in Brazil, gave birth to a baby girl weighing 2.2 kg (4.8 lb) by caesarean section at a hospital in Manaus in July 2006. Police are investigating the case.[8][9]

Age 10

* 1834: Sally Deweese of Butler County, Kentucky, was reported by Dr. D. Rowlett to have delivered a baby girl weighing 7.75 pounds (3.52 kg) on April 20, 1834. Deweese allegedly developed breasts within weeks of birth and began menstruating at 12 months.[10]
* 1979: A girl aged 10 gave birth to twins six weeks premature, both weighing 3 lb 6 oz, at a hospital in Indianapolis. She is thought to have been the youngest mother of twins at the time.[11]
* 2000: A girl from Bolivia gave birth to a baby girl weighing 2.5 kilograms (5.5 lb) by caesarean section at a hospital in Parque Patricios, Buenos Aires, Argentina on September 25, 2007. A 28-year-old was arrested on a charge of rape.[12][13]
* 2005: A girl from Calama, Chile, gave birth to a baby boy by caesarean section at a hospital in Antofagasta, Chile on April 13, 2005. The child became pregnant after having been raped by her father at age nine. Her parents, who both came from Bolivia, were jailed.[14][15][16]
* 2005: A girl gave birth to a baby girl at a hospital in Sion, Switzerland in August 2005. She had immigrated to Switzerland from Cameroon with her siblings when her mother married a Swiss citizen. A 68-year-old man who was in a relationship with the mother admitted to having molested the girl but a DNA test found that he was not the father of the girl's child.[17][18][19]
* 2006: A girl in Abbeville, South Carolina gave birth by caesarean section in 2006 after having been raped by then-26-year-old William Edward Ronca. Ronca admitted to having molested the girl over a two year period and was sentenced to 25 years in prison as a result. The baby was given for adoption.[20]
* 2006: A girl from Charleroi, Belgium gave birth in 2006. After the child began gaining weight, her mother put her on a diet, but when the girl visited a doctor, it was discovered that she was nine months pregnant. The father was a then-13-year-old boy who attended the same school as the girl. News of the birth did not become publicly known until 2007.[21]
* 2006: A girl from Jaral del Progreso, Guanajuato, Mexico gave birth naturally to a baby girl weighing 2.3 kilograms (5.1 lb) on April 3, 2006. She became pregnant after being raped by a 47-year-old neighbour, who was sentenced to 11 years, 6 months in prison for the crime.[22][23]
* 2007: A girl from San Lorenzo Cacaotepec, Oaxaca, Mexico gave birth to a baby boy on July 2, 2007. Her pregnancy was the result of a rape committed by the 65-year-old landlord of the house which her parents rented. The man was jailed.[24][25][26][27]
* 2008: In St. Anthony, Idaho, U.S., a girl gave birth to a 6 pounds (2.7 kg) baby at Madison Memorial Hospital. 37-year-old Guadalupe Gutierrez-Juarez was jailed on one felony count of rape.[28]

Age 11

* 1972: A girl gave birth at the age of 11 years, 10 months at Royal Buckinghamshire Hospital in Aylesbury, England. The father was the young girl's stepbrother.[29]
* 2002: A girl from Bridgeport, Connecticut gave birth after being raped by a 75-year-old man, who was arrested on April 17, 2002.[30]
* 2004: A girl gave birth to a baby boy weighing 8.4 lb (3.8 kg) at a hospital in Kharkov, Ukraine in January 2004. The girl, who is currently the youngest mother in Ukraine, is suspected to have been impregnated by a 26-year-old neighbour, who fled in the fear of facing prosecution.[31]
* 2005: Valentina gave birth to a boy in Moscow, Russia, after she was impregnated by her 14-year-old boyfriend.[32][unreliable source?]
* 2006: A girl of African origin gave birth to a baby boy at a hospital in West London, United Kingdom on May 5, 2006. A 37-year-old man was arrested.[33]
* 2007: A girl from Valhalla Park, Cape Town, South Africa gave birth to a baby boy on July 12, 2007. An elderly security guard was arrested in connection with rape. She agreed to give the baby up for adoption on the condition she could visit him once a month.[34]
* 2007: A girl from Lockland, Ohio, gave birth to a child on November 4, 2007. Her mother's boyfriend, Michael Chaffer, was sentenced to 28 years in prison on charges of felonious assault and two counts of rape. The baby is under the care of relatives.[35]
* 2009: Kordeza Zhelyazkova, a Romanian school girl, gave birth to a healthy child in Bulgaria on her wedding day. Her 19-year-old husband, with whom the child was allegedly conceived a week after meeting, now faces up to six years in jail for having sex with a minor. [36]



--- This cases came by decades... but the most of them are in silence.

are the gilrs are jumbo in ur country? i think for this soon to reach puberty ... here gilrs get to attain puberty in 13 years old....
and i think it so dangerous in 10 years for pregnant

well we have all type of size girls here... but the matter is how is development the organs inside of that girl.

We have cases that the girls starting the bleed at 8 yrs old. So, the parents and professionals need be alert of the risks could be present soon in this kids.

Yes, its dangerous bcz that girls havent development really good their orgarms inside and the life of the bb and that girl could be lost in the born. This gilrs cant have the bb in natural way and the bb born at 6 to 7 months of pregnancy, never stay at 8 to 9 months as normaly suppose occur.

ohh, wonderful,, 8 years?
this first time i heard it....are u married too?

Yes, 8 yrs old.

I am Clinical Social Worker and i work everydat in a primary school with 230 kids between 4 to 15 yrs old. :-)

No, I´m not married but the end of the next year I will.

nice job and congratulation for it... :)

well, sometimes its not nice by some difficult situations i need attend, but by that i decided study a lot and never stop studying bcz its an area that no one stop studying about it.

:-/

very very nice idea u have , i love study too

thax sweet heart

in welcome... if need more info just request it and i will bring it ;-)

Have a nice day!!!

yes Mahen..children denied the full truth will be more daft then they are had they being given the full truth they would be more respectfull to their elders and to life...some people might think this is too hard for children but ...not all children who can master technical facts but there is a percentage who are poetic and usually means these children are timid..timid why...because to create one is usually timid and these children assumed less gifted for the system are left on the sidelines or get a technical job in unhappiness ...they are then open to alcohol or drugs as their voice is being unheard when their peotry should be expressed and sadly in our country if their parents do not watch out for them there is suicide and there is more sucide then car deaths yet there many car death campaigns!!!!..priorities for children suck..if we were to change education and make it more personnal and poetic and this also involves sex education as every life action is a sexual act and marry all that to the usual technical side..now that would be a revolution and a bloodless one of love...imagine love comming to school..stand aside this teacher is the love teacher..well ya know not as dramatic..so its either suicide versus adults lazy prudence,,,,,

thax dear you narrate such things that all the communities must be think seriously on this issue.

i feel that as life gets faster ...counsellors should go into schools as parents are more and more challenged today

u r right dear.

thanks..when we deny truth from 12yr old children..is it like cageing a wild animal...great for us human safety but the animal has lost its hunting abilities to survive...somethings lost ...if we leave the animal in the wild ...what harm can it do if we dont trespass its habitat and the animal keeps its skills to survive..if we explain to children natures sex what harm can it do if we dont trespass the childrens friends "constantly"

you know every creature on this earth have some natural habits, or you can say this is a natural flow which is more important for its healthy growth..it can be said also that these things are provided to it from god that it can survive. if you stop the flow or try to break or change the natural directions it will make negative influences to its growth. the same thing apply in the case of sex. it is moreless important for all the creatures .by giving sex education we can lighted their paths and one another thing in recent days the brain of a 12yrs child is fertile eqally as the brain of 24 yrs man in 70es or 80es.

thanks Mahen for your support especially when im from a country where in 1987 there was the miracles of many moving statues perhaps telling the irish we are hard like these statues and not sensous enough or sexual...with our overbearing shock of anything of a sexual nature when it is God that invented sex...im looked upon in my hometown as odd...simply because i express my sexuality in art and its disturbing people and there is support to but those who support are still hesitateingly supportive and the most bullying comes from the proud and i wonder if their parents were more proud then the bullys ...i wouldnt have as much opposition

Cheers,Quite Well Said Gus...

sex as defence moreso than a weapon..thanks for the acknowledgement Joel

Yes This Is A Big Subject,& We Have Barely Scratched The Surface Of It...
Peace To You & Yours...
ZarDoZ69...

thanks Joel...nice name...unhappiness exsists when we cover truths and through the ages we loose the ability to speak truths

thax joel

opps...thanks Mahen...wheres my tablets

Yeah its a good idea. They seem to learn very early nowadays anyway.

thax dear for your reply.

you r very welcome

I think not only sex education should be tought but educating about relationships and contraception should be taught at an ealy age. All 3 go hand in hand.

wow great i really appericiate your idea.

The issue for me is not the age, but that it should be the parents who teach their children on this topic. This is a very important first step in communicating with your children about their sexuality, and when they need someone to talk to they will or will not be able (or be comfortable) to speak with the parents based on whether the parents were able to speak to them.

ok but i think as is always a fector when we talking about sex . as medical science says 18 is the suitable age for a girl for making the sex with someone since there is always a threat of pragnency. and teaching from parents is not a great way since this is a sensitive issue and i think the gap must be maintained, so we are talking about schools.

Couldn't agree more, I guess sexual education in school should only complement the (sexual) education kids get at home. The point is parents are mostly clueless on what and how to teach his kids.
Maybe parents should be the ones to go to school and get a proper education.

yes that is the point ,but dear by saying this you are agree with the need of sexual edu. to the childs. you know the childs will become the parents in near future and if they had this edu. already there will be no need to give them this edu. after.
wishing you a happy deepawali friend.

good idea, but if they apply it, absolutely we need a hospital near each school to take care of the pregnancy :)))))))))))

we are not talking about sexual relationship, we are talking about sex education. but well thax for your idea.

education need practice, and I assume this will be interesting for them, therefore they'll do it.

you know to read theory is must before doing practicals

of course, but this thing is very easy to learn by practicing than reading theories about it. I think this idea is not really needed, because it consums money and time.

if you want to learn something you has to devote your time and money dear.

why not other education that we give education of sex
instead of that EDUCATION OF ISLAM AND QURAN is the bestttttttttttttttttttt

the relegious education is given already .and you know all the men n women are created by the god and they have to live their lives properly .no one can say that sex is not an important part of the life. so the question aries.

sex is important but if they know the right meaning of islam and quran so they will knw everything

u r doing mistake yet. dont link the relegion with sex.

y not?

Assalam Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh

Sex is very important part of human lives. That is why Islam encourages marriage as the way to regulate safe & healthy sexual life to devout Muslim.
The best resources is always to ask your dad or mom, especially when you reach puberty. Although, they will ward off your questions until they really feel you're ready for it (which means, until the day you finally getting married), or never at all.

To Mohammad n frnd4u....... All religions encourage marriage... In fact some allows only one ( for secure life of women ).... That doesn't mean married people learn sex automatically... Or one can have better sexual life with education of Quran.... Fact is family members can never guide child with these aspects.... How can mom teach her son how to fu*k....? Considering the age, 10-12 is much young age in which child don't have that much strong sexual feelings.... So teaching in this age can lead there attraction toward sex more than necessarily.... Imagine Aft getting sex education children tends to watch vulgar thing or discuss dirty incidences as well as jokes.... Isn't it too early for these kids.........

excellent priyal full marks for your decent analyzise. now for wat you afraid of,
u know when a young girl starts her monthely creation ,she just know something about the sex organs and the age is now just 12 yrs on the other hand the mental status of a 12 yrs child is not lesser these days than a 18 yrs young of past time so it is the need of this time. and u cant say that the child are not going on the path of vulgarity today.

parents mean father and mother

a father guide a son in these things
and a mother teach a daughter

and in islam marriage is not allow in age of 10 or 12