RULES OF GREAT FRIENDS

Rule no 6
if the topic is serious be serious in discussion

hi.................
nice RULES
:)

THANK YOU RAJ FOR POSTING THIS RULES, HOPE EVERYONE SHLD FOLLOW IT...COZ I NOTICE LATELY THAT THEY ARE USING HARSH WORDS AGAINST FELLOW MEMBERS.....

thx liza 4 supporting the rules, i have noticed that too, thats y the rules has been made

UR ALWAYS WELCOME RAJ...AND IM ALWAYS HERE TO SUPPORT U FOR THE SAKE OF THIS GRP.....

thanks raj for making these rules for our grp, i hope everyone should follow.

yes i hope so, it will do good 4 grp

Raj, thanks for posting this ...we must really have to follow rules in posting comments in every topic. and it can also serve as guideline to the a new members...

yes it will, thx 4 the support jovie

Thank u raj i welcome ur thoughts...........

thx so much 4 being with me on this issue

HELLO RAJ..... GOOD RULE GUIDELINES...........EVERYONE SHD FOLLOW IT...THESE R THE BASICS FOR ANY CORDIAL DISCUSSION...AND THATS WHAT WE R TO DO HERE....TO MAKE FRIENDS AND EXCHANGE VIEWS...AND NOT IMPOSING OUR POINTS ON THEM............SO EVERYONE SHD ABIDE BY IT........AND RESPECT EACH OTHER...

right zenia , will u like to add any further rule except those rules

Raj,
thanks a lot
I think this will help to aviod using bad words here
You didnt tell anything abt the penalty?
wat is the penatly fr who is nt following the rules?

hmm penality , v will discuss in topic, which penality must be imposed on them who is breaking rules

mm
you can ask members to put their openion abt it

u give ur opinon

hello Best...i think krish is right we have to impose penalty for those who dont know how to respect others, and those who use harsh words again, u can block them frm grp and report to the zorpia administrator....if it is ok for u as the administrator of this grp..... this is only my suggestion....

Thank you....

Your Best,
Liza

Yes! I completely agree a hundred percent. A big and established group like ours must have clear rules and regulations for everyone to abide in. That's just what I was waiting for, actually.

just got a reaction to rule number six, though. Can you please elaborate on that? As I can see, except for the party celebration last month and the word games, all topics posted here were all serious topics. We just inject humor into them to make the discussions lively. In fact, I honestly think that those funny moments were what made the discussions alive in each topic. So maybe, we just have to define how serious is serious and how funny is funny?

Good day to all!!

hello Rizza,
we can make our serious topic lively even w/o using harsh word that may can offend to the recipient..
using abuse language or offensive word in public might can affect bad impression frm the viewer to the group or to the person itself

hello jovelyn,

yes, that's true, sis. I'm a hundred percent on that!!! That should have been a NO NO! That's why, we shouldn't have used words like st---d and i---t. Hihihi!!!! you started it and i followed! Lol! we owe the group an apology for that! Sorry, guys!!! won't happen again, promise!!!

But that wasn't my question about. I was asking what Raj just meant by serious discussion. and would that mean that being funny (decently funny, i.e.) is out in these so-called "serious" discussions?

hi sis,
well i think it was not me who started when u call Krish as p-------d, wht do u think of it?,, anyway if u think i am then so sorry again,, i hope we shouldnt make this as a big issue for the sake of the group,
We are just a human that committed mistakes sometimes...
love u my triplet.....mwahhhhh

My God, I wasn't making it a big issue!!! Can you people just read what I have written above?????

Love you too sis, really! And I'm willing to let this pass for the sake of friendship and the group. I hope we can discuss this outside of public scrutiny.

I just can't believe this is happening. *SAD* huhuhu!!!

hello Rizza,
I didnt expect u wll continue ths type of silly and cheap arguement again, really
You only started it
You may hav your own reason fr wat u did,
Before dropping here, u just think wat u did earlier
ok?
I didnt forget wat u called me, then also i kept silent bcos i didnt want to make it as a big issue
But u felt irritation when somebody reacted?

Excuse me Krishnan. i was not irritated at all. Can't you read between the lines? I wasn't even trying to be argumentative about it!!! Please read what I have written carefully!!!! What silly and cheap argument are u saying? And can you please go back to the discourse we had about that paranoid thing? All the while I thought it was a no-issue, because I was quick to make amends to you about that! Here's your reply and my reply to you about that.

Rizza: "Hello, Krish! Excuse my term, please. I was just kidding. No offense meant, really. Hey, can't you take a joke?

Okey, from now on, I wont joke with you any more. Hehe! Joke, joke, joke!

Just tell me if my jokes become offensive, okey? I'll stop, really."

Krishnan: "Its ok my dear
i didnt take it serious
ok?
u can continue
No need to be seious like my lover, ok?

So, before you drop here too, just think what you said also!!!! Don't forget how u replied to my apology!!!

The guts!!!! Huh!!!!!

Yes Rizza,
i knw wat i replied u earlier
and nw also
I didnt take it serious and i replied like tht
But she may felt tht its bad, so she respont tht u did stupidity,
right?
But u replied fr it also badly,
it was not like tht wat i replied to u, right?
u saw any bad word in my reply to u?
u go and just read ur reply to Jovie
i want to copy it here?

I know exactly what I replied to Jovie! The first one was a complete drama, a scenario that was created just to elicit reactions for fun. She knows that, coz we chat on the sides about it. You can ask her that. The second one was quite complete irresponsible on my part that's why I apologized for it! And you even took my apology offensive???? Saying that it was argumentative, silly and cheap!!!!!!!!!!

THE GUTS!!!!! HUH!!!!!

I didnt take ur appology as cheap argument
U told tht its started by Jovie
so i corrected u
U only started it, ok?
she respont to u
and i dnt want to continue it
bcos nothing will be the result
it just dropping some words
its only
so, i m stopping
i dnt want to make clear anything to anybody
i knw wat is right and wat was wrong
tht is enough for me

have a nice day!

I rest my case too, coz the truth all about this is very glaring. All the rest were just afterthoughts.

Sorry, I can't wish you a nice day now, coz I'd be a hypocrite if I would.

Dnt be hypocrate
Past is over
close it then
and
live in present
ok?
again, have a nice day

I Can't, ok? I can't!!!! PERIOD!!! And please don't reply anymore, coz I'm starting to cry!!!!!

Why u want to cry??

Hi Rizza,
I didnt mean to make u cry
and i didnt expect it also
sorry
i thought u r a strong lady
ok
Nw i knw
u also emotional
But its good
Again a part of unhiding ur mask
Have a nice day again

Hello Guys, v all r part of family, if any one hurted anyone then say sorry to each other as v do in our family
Dont keep anything in heart.
& be Friends Again thx

thanks hon for being so humble ..i know u also dont like my sis Rizza crying...im proud of u honey. love u...but she need chocolate i think as what i like always.....lol

Hello sis and raj! For the sake of everyone in this group and especially for the sake of this group perse, which I have come to love so much, in the name of friendship, apology accepted, Krishnan!

Let's all start anew!!! I may not have had a nice day today, but at least I will have a good night. Goodnight, everyone!

PS. Sis, I'll ask for my chocolates later! Mwah!!!!

Oh, I almost forgot.... I'm sorry too for being so rude and unruly. And for inadvertently hurting my friends, however unintentional it may be. This has taught me one lesson l in life that I'll truly treasure. Thank you all! Great Friends Forever!!!!

IM VERY SAD WHEN I FIRST READ ALL THE CONVERSATION, I THINK THIS A LESSON FOR ALL OF US......AND NOW IM SURE EVERYTHING IS SETTLED, WE ARE FAMILY AND FRIENDS HERE SO IT IS OUR REPONSIBILTY TO CARE FOR EACH OF US NOT TO HURT.....I LOVE U GUYS....

oo oo i thank god every thing is settled i was abt to bring some ice for all to throw on each other to make everyone cool lol

nw i think it calls for another party

ya u are right nidhi... i guess we have some toss of reconcillation..or a toss of friendship ,,,hahahaha

@ Liza

Thanks , sis! All's well that ends well!

@ nidhi

hello, nidhi! thanks, but no ice cubes necessary. Ice cream would do. hehehe! and add some chocolates too. lolz!!!

@jovie

love you, sis! are you smiling now? Lolzzz! Mwah!!!!

i also support raj rulea were very much necessary as it provide guidelines to all members of the grp